I always liked Paul. He was super smart, fast and always on the go. I could be friends with him. Not a lover.
His lack of romance was infuriating. Kind Sex was very mechanical to him. No foreplay, cooking you dinner, a hug, affection (yet not fake) etc.
Sadly it is what my husband became, almost immediately after marriage. No cooking dinner, planning a night out etc. I knew that would be the case, wasn't sure it was going to be quite so bad that he would talk to some bro and decide: "when did we last have sex". Well hon, which day in which year did you initiate romance, because a dry intercourse to please you is not happening.
It did not occur to me to find it a strange coincidence he had sold encyclopedias to my brother in Peoria Illinois (purportedly).
Given his lack of communication in the process I believe he is involved from Apple in the real time stalking (machine learning collection) or one of his concubines in some way.
I am glad to get out of this marriage and being the one to have to initiate all things "intimate" like I was happy to get away from Paul Makepeace.
Not only that the loss of dignity of the person that Paul Makepeace (presumably now) hired to start making death threats in 2019 is definately a turn-off.