A Letter to the Family (not me) regarding his parenting of Julia and Tim

After removing my husband from being in the middle of the family gang up activity, the gang adapts to a new model of ganging up and abuse "Withholding Information". This is after my father mysteriously vanished all of my mother's photos. And someone who had made me their "litigation research project" starts deleting archives of Fort Worth City ballet in Tarrant county while initiating a UNCSA harassment case of exclusion.

The prior gang activity, ruined my last relationship, as my grandmother turned on me for working full time and going to school full time. I will never forget the way she would point her finger and scolding me for not having time to come see her? (How could I - I was to work and do better than I ever did after being "cut off" financially at age 13?)...

Julia her love did come see her - Julia is always digging for gold from anyone she can. For the amount of con job boyfriends she had guiding the way, she has not managed to pull off profit only being systematically abused.


-----Original Message----- 

From: Thompson-Merriman, Laurie (this family does not have personal email addresses)

Sent: Tuesday, December 6, 2011 10:24 AM 

To: Moira Vasquez  

Cc: My brother Greg who thinks a realtor is the right place for family emails

Subject: Long Rant

Greg was asked to share the original attachment with you. I just thought you might want to know my response. 

LM Laurie Merriman Assistant Dean College of Fine Arts Illinois State University Normal, IL 

 

Greg NEVER shares attachment. Says "talk to your father". The forever family secret. . Unfortunately it will take time to find because someone from Microsoft practicing data acquisitions with my devices tagged everything in a way that Indexing brings up bizarre activity and selective results.  The entire data set of my email needs to be ingested into a new tool. 

 

From: "Thompson-Merriman, Laurie" <lmerri@ilstu.edu<mailto:lmerri@ilstu.edu>> > Date: December 5, 2011 8:29:01 PM CST > To: STANLEY MERRIMAN 

Subject: Re: Long Rant > > Dear Stan, > > Please know that I (we) do not judge you. We all have our own journey through this life and I have not walked in your shoes. I know from our conversation you have given many years, blood, sweat, and no doubt, tears to fight to get Tim back and now you are finding yourself in the impossible situation and frightfully, similar situation, with Julia. > > Your letter was not a "long rant" as your subject suggests. Instead, it is an extremely well written letter that represented a historical recounting of your struggles for your family. Between the lines, I read both love and pain. Thank you for taking the time to share with us. > > As I recall our conversation(s) and read your letter I am struck by an absence of those family members in your life that are a source of pride. (Please understand I, too, am thankful for Julie Jackson in your life knowing she is a positive force for you...I am only referring to those in your family before Julie, e.g. "blood relatives".) You mention Moira and Jim but only in the sense that you and Moira have issues or that you supported her position with regard to Tim. I would like to remind you (doubt you need this, but here goes...) that she is a beautiful, loving, sensitive, extremely bright, and successful young woman. She has a wonderful life with Jim and is working towards continued upward mobility in her career...a goal we all have for our children. Greg, too, has ultimately provided you with bragging rites with a long-term marriage to me, three beautiful children (two of which are successful, educated, and well-adjusted humans raising children of their own to pass along the legacy), and a strong work-ethic to get through some rather difficult times. While he finds himself nearly allergic to conflict of all kinds, he is strong enough to support you and his siblings to the best of his ability. > > While my heart continues to hurt for Hadley, she is young and is in a loving home. She will be a strong young lady in the end through this. She can thank you one day for this...I will see to it that she remembers....However, there is this little girl just six months older than Hadley...yep, that would be Emma. Sure, she's protected, cared for, spoiled every once and awhile by us, and so forth but her attention from you is no less needed. She, at almost 13, struggles to make good choices, to brush off kids at school that "bully her," to maintain good grades despite her on-going ability to read at grade level, and to develop into a confident and independent young woman. > > I do not intend to make you feel guilty. I just want you to focus for a change on the positive - the good things that have come from the life you and Mary Kay made together. Celebrate...it is not all negative. Yes? > > With love, Laurie > > Sent from my iPad > > 

 

On Dec 5, 2011, at 10:40 AM, "STANLEY MERRIMAN" wrote: > > I'm almost embarrassed to send you this but if nothing else, allow me the theraputic benefits of the Tim/Julia saga to clean out my "pipes". Love to you all. It is long, 4 pages, take a deep breath and read in a quiet moment. Stan > > Harris County Democratic Party: MAKING BETTER LIVES FOR ALL. Not Just the Privileged Few. >

 <A Letter To the Family Regarding My Parenting of Julia and Tim.docx> 

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