The GLOAT that comes from my eldest brother and his wife

While I was functioning like the little dutch boy keeping a finger in the dam trying to help my sister, father, brother....he and his wife's responses are pretty astounding.

It's GLOAT, I do not know how else to describe it. I look at his photos now and all I see is arrogance. The kind of gloat one can only achieve when they armchair from a distance the emotional hurt that is going on at home.