This note was my tough love attempt...after many nice attempts, and offer to financially provide a "bailout"
This was after taking Julia to see a psychologist "TOGETHER" (she lied and said she was not drunk or stoned the night before) two years before.
Also, this was after noting that Doug was standing there looking shocked while I highlighted her door latch was simply being hit when the door was opened/closed (she was already deeply gaslit by then and anyone gaslighting her needed to be removed from her day to day). That was during Hurricane Ike one month before. I knew she was in too deep at that point. She had come home gritting her teeth, she had people who stood around looking stunned and not correcting her when she was not understanding her surroundings and the activities going on.
I am not here to govern her morality, I was worried her priorities had shifted EXORBITANTLY after meeting this man. I asked her why she was with him when it was clear he was not helping her notice how the door latches and chains worked. That alone was a gaslight and she was clearly lit. She said "I do not know... she liked his big *" .
This was not about controlling someones morality. (some bizarre "anonymous attacker writes") It was about the very bad choices she was making at a very specific point in time when she was clearly tanking fast with a child in the home. Your opinions mean nothing to me now. Your rights mean nothing to me now.
I have watched the gaming and media industry tank and ensure 3 deaths and have screwed up my sister so much she has totally lost it.
How the hell you thought that needed to be a bot game at Mandiant is way beyond me especially after the couple of suicides from the same guys' bullying at Shell.
From: Moira Vasquez [mailto:vasquez.moira@gmail.com]
Sent: Wednesday, October 01, 2008 12:54 PM
To: Greg, Julia Jackson, Laurie Merriman (these folks never have personal email addresses). Julia Goolia and one of many email addressees.
Subject: Julia Merriman Bradshaw
I want to make everyone aware of my current position. I am aware that there are impressions that since I do not have children and have maintained a job that I am the person in the family most capable of handling crisis of my adult siblings. I probably don’t need to point out how much that really upsets me.
I have already come to terms with my responsibility for Tim, because Tim cannot make choices for himself. Julia, on the other hand, can make choices. My opinion is that bailing her out now is not different than bailing out someone who was caught using drugs. She knows the men she chooses are wrong, irresponsible and in some cases immoral. She was made fully aware over a year ago of the criminal background of Doug and chose to involve herself anyway. That is why I view her as being similar to a drug addict. She is desperate, out of money and dependent upon people who abuse her at this point – no different than someone who has lost it all to crack pipe. The only difference between Julia and a drug addict may be that she is still capable of rational thought (we hope but are not sure!). If Julie wants to approach me for a LOAN I will take penalties on my own retirement and give it to her under the following “unwaivering” conditions:
- . Julie must sell her house
- Julie must move to Houston (away from the current men involved in her life – and in a location where we can monitor her without being inconvenienced ourselves – and yes she needs to be monitored if she is going to keep Hadley)
- Julie must obtain a job and pay me back
I am open to helping, but not open to negotiations on the conditions. If she or any of you do not like the conditions then you are free to provide her a loan yourselves.
Kind Regards,
Moira Vasquez
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